Divorce and Evolution

I am currently in the middle of my divorce from my wife of 8 years (together 11 years, with a 5 year old son). To be frank, this a painful, ugly, and distrustful process. I have chosen to look upon this experience, however, as an opportunity for evolution, education, empowerment, and growth. On this journey the more I experience, the more I find I have to learn. Here is my story.